A Stress-Free Start: How to Make the Most of Winter Break for College Planning

“Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass under trees on a summer’s day or to watch the clouds float across the sky is by no means a waste of time.”
— John Lubbock

As the holidays approach, families finally get a little breathing room. Between school projects, sports, and exams, your teen has probably been running at full speed since September. Winter break is the perfect time to pause, reflect, and prepare—without the stress.

Whether your child is in 8th grade or already in high school, this season offers a low-pressure window to help them make small, meaningful moves toward future college goals. Here are a few ways to make it count:

1. Reflect, Don’t Rush

Before diving into “what’s next,” encourage your teen to take stock of this semester. What classes or activities did they enjoy most? What came easily, and what felt like a grind? These reflections reveal strengths, interests, and patterns that matter far more than GPA alone. A quiet conversation over hot chocolate can uncover insights that guide smarter choices next semester.

2. Refresh and Reorganize

A little organization now saves major headaches later. Have your teen set up a simple digital folder for school and extracurricular achievements—think projects, awards, and photos. This will make creating a résumé or college activity list down the road infinitely easier.

Bonus: Encourage them to clean out their backpack and email inbox before January. It’s amazing how clearing physical and digital clutter resets motivation.

3. Reconnect with Purpose

Winter break is also a great time for “micro-exploration.” Teens can read about different careers, listen to a podcast, or shadow a parent at work for a day. The goal isn’t to lock in a major—it’s to help them start noticing what excites them. Colleges love students who show curiosity and initiative, and that starts with simple exploration.

4. Plan for Summer Opportunities

It may be cold outside, but now’s the perfect moment to think ahead to summer. Summer isn’t just for downtime—it’s a chance to grow, explore interests, and build experiences that colleges notice.

Mark your calendar: On February 12th from 6–8 PM, families are invited to attend the Pathways Fair for Summer & School-Year Enrichment Programs at Marriotts Ridge High School. You’ll meet organizations offering incredible opportunities for teens—from academic camps to internships and volunteer programs. It’s the easiest way to find something meaningful (and fun!) for your student’s next summer.

Go to: https://tinyurl.com/MRHSPathwaysFair.

Winter break doesn’t need to be packed with college prep tasks. Think of it as a reset button—a time to reflect, recharge, and set gentle intentions for the new year. Small, intentional steps now can make a big difference later—and help your teen start January feeling confident, calm, and ready for what’s next.